Empowering Anxious Children with Technology

by | Oct 17, 2023 | Family, Learning, Mental Health, Technology

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Technology today plays a pervasive role in the lives of children. From educational apps to social media, the digital landscape is a double edged sword that can either exacerbate or alleviate anxiety in children. So, how can we reach the goal of empowering anxious children with technology? For them, navigating this realm can be particularly challenging. However, with thoughtful guidance, you can nurture healthy habits with technology. 

With both of my children struggling with various forms of anxiety, I have had to be very intentional in understanding why my children are using technology. For instance, my son often uses calming apps, or games that will help distract him when he is emotionally disregulated. My daughter often listens to music on her devices to help feel calmer. Therefore, setting limits or lots of restrictions doesn’t always make sense. We have learned to be very intentional in talking about what is healthy with technology and how we find a balance.

Here are ways you can be intentional in building healthy habits with technology.

Boy with headphones looking at phone

Establish a Balanced Screen Time Routine

One of the first steps in fostering a healthy relationship with technology is to establish a balanced screen time routine. Anxious children, like any other, benefit form structure and predictability. Set specific time limits for recreational screen time and ensure that it doesn’t interfere with essential activities such as homework, meals and sleep.

Curate Educational Content

Technology can be a powerful tool for learning. Instead of fusing solely on entertainment, curate educational content that aligns with the child’s interests. Educational apps, documentaries and interactive websites can engage an anxious child’s mind in a positive and constructive manner, providing a healthy outlet for their energy.

Encourage Mindful Tech Use

Teach anxious children to be mindful of their technology use. This includes being aware of ther emotional state before, during and after screen time. Encourage them to take breaks, practice deep breathing exercises, or engage in physical activities to counterbalance the sedentary nature of screen time.

Promote Positive Social Interactions

For anxious children, social interactions can be daunting. However, technology can also be a platform for positive social experiences. Facilitate controlled and monitored interactions with friends or family members through video calls or messaging apps. This helps anxious children build social skills in a low-pressure environment.

Explore Therapeutic Apps

In recent years, there has been a surge in apps designed to support mental health. Many of these apps offer tools for managing anxiety, stress and mindfulness. Explore and introduce age-appropriate therapeutic apps that can empower anxious children with coping mechanisms and emotional regulation strategies.

Establish Tech-Free Zones

To create a healthy balance, designate certain areas in the home as tech-free zones.  This could include the dinner table, bedrooms, or specific play areas.  This not only ensures that anxious children have time away from screens but also promotes better sleep and family bonding.

Model Healthy Tech Habits

Children often emulate the behavior of their parents and caregivers. Model healthy tech habits by demonstrating responsible screen time use, maintaining a balance between online and offline activities, and emphasizing the importance of face-to-face communication.

Table with cell phones lying on it. Sign says Device Free Zone

Open Communication Channels

Encourage open communication about technology. Anxious children may have specific concerns or fears related to online activities. Establish a safe space where they can express their thoughts, ask questions, and seek guidance without fear of judgment. 

Navigating the digital world can be challenging for anxious children, but with a proactive and mindful approach, it can become a source of empowerment and growth.  By incorporating these strategies, parents and caregivers will be empowering anxious children toward developing healthy habits with technology, fostering a positive relationship that promotes both mental well-being and digital literacy.

Empowering Anxious Children With Technology

By Lisa Edwards, M. Ed., Parent Coach

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